I love ice cream. I always have. Maybe it is because ice
cream was my family’s answer to just about anything. Need to celebrate? Ice
cream. Need a bite of something sweet? Ice cream. Feeling down? Ice cream. Feeling
a bit under the weather? Ice cream. Having an average day? Ice cream! In my
family, ice cream was the be-all and end-all of everything. If ice cream
couldn’t fix it. . .well. . .it couldn’t
be fixed.
Most of the time, our ice cream consisted of an assortment
of store brands: Neapolitan, vanilla, chocolate, French vanilla, rocky road
with the occasional sherbet thrown in. Every now and again we splurged and went
all out. We piled in the car and headed to Baskin
Robbins®. Baskin Robbins® was an
ice cream lover’s paradise. At any given time they displayed thirty-one
heavenly flavors, all for the choosing. I was allowed a scoop of anything I
wanted. Anything was possible. I would wander from display case to display
case, my eyes feasting on the assortment of five gallon drums filled with
creamy deliciousness. It was so hard to choose, but choose I did. We each would
choose the flavor that fit our individual styles and personalities. My brother always
seemed to end up with some sort of blue concoction laced with bubble gum. My
mom, chocolate. Dad? He always got something with nuts in it. Me, I never got
the same thing twice. I wanted to try it all.
What made Baskin
Robbins® so great was the number of choices. Everyone could walk away happy
because we got to choose. Choosing is so satisfying, so fulfilling, so part of
how we live every day. Somehow choices seem to be important. The more we have
the better. We like choices so much that it is easy to see how choices have
become part of everything we do, how we have developed a Baskin Robbins® approach to life. It seems that one of our greatest
desires is to multiple choices. . .in everything. We don’t want just one cut of
jeans. We want five from which to choose. We don’t want just one type of ketchup.
We want ten from which to choose, and we would prefer that two be an organic
variety. We don’t want just one sedan, we want three sedans from each of
multiple companies, and don’t forget that we want loads of options about their
equipment.
We love choices. It should not surprise us that our penchant
for developing choices has worked its way into the faith journey. We want
choices when it comes to worship styles. We want choices when it comes to
preaching styles. We want choices when it comes to translations of the Bible.
By and large these choices are relatively innocuous. They don’t amount to great
shifts in the journey of faith. However, there is a choice that has worked its
way in that cuts much deeper, a choice about the version of faith you choose to
hold.
I am not talking about choosing to be Baptist, Methodist, Anglican,
or Pentecostal, though at times the choice I am talking about has been equated
with denominational strains. The choice I am talking about is the choice
between a faith that engages the world and a faith that holds back. It seems
that there has developed the idea that there exists a choice between the brands
of faith you can hold. One faith reaches out and seeks to make something of
this world. It engages in justice. It offers mercy. It brings freedom and
healing. The other brand, of equal merit, mind you, is a brand that sits back
waiting for God to bring justice, to offer mercy, to bring freedom and healing.
This brand of faith posits that all that is really necessary to be a follower
of Christ is to pray a prayer of repentance leading to forgiveness. Anything
after that is optional.
I grew up in this second brand of faith. I was steeped in a
deep tradition that what mattered most was the forgiveness of my sin. Anything
after that was optional. It felt right. It seemed good. After all, wasn’t this
a choice? It is a choice, but according to Jesus it is a choice we don’t get to
make. Somewhere in my faith journey I actually began to read the words of Jesus
and I began to realize that there are some choices we just don’t get to make.
Engagement with the world happens to be one of them.
It is not easy to release this choice. I want to remain in
control. I want to choose my destiny. I want to decide what I do and what I
don’t do. It feels wrong to have someone push me beyond my comfort zone, out
into a world that is filled with more need than I feel I could ever possibly
meet. Then again, was my choice ever really taken from me? After all, didn’t I
choose to be like Jesus? Didn’t I say I wanted to follow him? Perhaps I did
choose, but the choice I made wasn’t between brands of faith in Christ. There
is just one brand of faith in Christ. My choice was that I chose faith at all.
A fellow traveler,
Blake
What’s my next step?
We encourage you to
consider engaging in the following as a way of handing off faith in your
family.
Plan a service activity: God made us to make something of our
world. As a family, consider planning an activity in which you might act upon
this truth. This activity could be as simple as planting a tree, cleaning a
neighbor’s yard, or it might be more complex like engaging in a short-term
volunteer project. Be sure to chat before and after your family activity about
the reasons behind your service. You are serving because God has called us to
engage our world in positive, redemptive ways (Ephesians 2.10).
We encourage you to
consider engaging in the following as a way of deepening your own faith.
Consecrate yourself and your place of service to God: God made you
to make something of your world. He made you who you are and placed you where
you are because he knew what was needed most. You don’t have to fit any mold or
be anyone other than who you are to make something of your world. This week, we
encourage you to spend some time consecrating yourself and your place of
service to God. You might do this by imagining where you live and work, or you
might physically go to the place where you live and work. In your mind, or
physically, let your eyes roll over the items and people that make up your
world and place of service. Give yourself to God, offering yourself to him as an
instrument grace made to make something of your world. Thank him for making you
who you are. Thank him that he knew best when he made you. Ask that he be
glorified and his kingdom grown through you.
AMEN! :)
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